The ownership of love marriage lies totally with the partners. OwnershipĪdvantage – Selecting the spouse is taken as a sign of maturity. It creates lot of rift in the relations and lot of stress in life. People choose the partners and then convey their choice to the parents.ĭisadvantage – usually in these cases, people don’t get parental support and everyone in their family turns against them. Parental involvementĪdvantage – Parental involvement in choosing “The One” is not there. At times, it takes lot of time to find “The One” compatible to you. You get the freedom to choose your life partner and you get more independence in this and freedom to live as per your wish.ĭisadvantage- There’s a lot of anxiety and stress that people go through when they choose to spend their life with someone of their choice. It is their own choice and wish to get married to the specific person. Choice to chooseĪdvantage – First and foremost advantage is that love marriage is not forced upon two individuals. Listed below are few advantages and disadvantages of love marriage. Well, it cannot be really ascertained as to where and how two people meet and fall in love but it is assured that the parental involvement is not there. They usually are people who meet in educational units like school, college, university or they work together or they are probably neighbours or even family friends, through common friends and cousins. Love marriage usually happens between people who have known each other with or without their family’s interference. Getting married to the person you love is given a legal sanction and is no longer a taboo in any society. In love marriage, both the partners pledge themselves to each other out of the love and not the societal obligation however they have defined rights and obligations towards one another. Their inclination is based on the fact that they are already aware of the person’s likes and dislikes, temperament and behavioural pattern.
These days most of the people prefer to have a love marriage than getting arranged by their parents. Love marriage is based on affection, love and mutual interest. Marriage can be either arranged by parents or two individuals can choose their respective life partners. It’s a union of two people who get together to grow their families and future generations. These parents monitor and impart clear standards for their children's conduct and communicate clear consequences for misbehavior.Marriage is a one of the important “Sanskars” of a human being as per our Vedas. When children fail to meet the expectations, these parents are more nurturing and forgiving rather than punishing. Are responsive to their children and willing to listen to questions. They establish rules and guidelines that their children are expected to follow. Authoritative: Moderate on both demandingness and responsiveness. These parents "are obedience - and status-oriented, and expect their orders to be obeyed without explanation"Ĭ. Children are expected to follow the strict rules - failure to follow such rules results in punishment. Authoritarian: High in demandingness, low in responsiveness.
Permissive parents are generally nurturing and communicative with their children, often taking on the status of a friend more than that of a parent.ī. They are nontraditional and lenient, and do not require mature behavior. Permissive: Indulgent - Low in demandingness and high in responsiveness. Children: benefits are highest in marriages that are low conflict and long lasting, children of married parents tend to have better education that single or cohabitating parents, children from married parents are less likely to be in the lowest economic tiers, children from non-divorced parents are less likely to divorce themselvesĪ. Women: married women are more financially secure, married women are more satisfied with their sex lives than single or cohabitating women, married women receive more emotional and financial support form her children's fathers kinĭ. Men: married men live longer, married men are healthier physically, married men earn more money, married men have better relationships with their children, more likely to spend time with their children and more likely to commit resources to their childrenĬ. General Benefits: less likely to commit suicide, more likely to have close and supportive relationships via social networks that include kin and family friends, cope better with negative life events such as job loss, severe illness, illness of a parent or child, married people are better off financiallyī.
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